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I have to respectfully disagree with the ones that say nothing will make you feel better but time.......The power of prayer WILL DO wonders.....You are in my prayers.

Proverbs 3: 5-6.
Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
And lean not on your own understanding;
6 In all your ways acknowledge Him,
And He shall direct your paths.





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Prayers sent. If there is anything I can do please let me know. PM me Call me I don't care I will listen. 931_637_5731_ Ricky
I'm not the best on advise but will give you all I can.
You need to be your best so you can give others your best. Stay safe and be strong
 
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Wow! My heart aches for you brother. The courage required to post your plea is sobering. You no doubt are in a dark and difficult spot but it sounds like you've made some very good decisions, reaching out for help and reaching out to your pastor. I don't know where you are in your faith but I know that God loves you, will never give up on you and will guide you through anything if you just ask and lay your problems at His feet.

I'll be praying for you and praying that the Lord will give the Preacher the words you need to hear. Life is not easy nor is it fair, we just have to do our best to get through every day, ask for help when we need it and pray daily for strength and guidance.

Everything will work out and you'll be stronger for it.
 
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My heart goes out to you and you and your family are in my prayers. I've had my share of struggles the last few years. A co-worker made an off-hand comment to me at one of the low points that definately stuck with me. He pointed out to me that God will not give you more than you can handle. I really don't think my co-worker knows how much those words have meant to me and how they've helped me through some hard times since.

You've made a great start by coming forward and asking for help, not something many of us find an easy thing to do. But take to heart the response from the guys on this forum, guys you probably don't even know. They all care and send their prayers and best wishes. If these "internet friends" can care so much be sure the people close to you care as much and more. The advice given above is great, take it to heart and know that things will be better with time.
 
So much good advice from others who've been through the fire too. Almost 3 years ago I got blindsided by a divorce with two daughters 3 and 5. Utterly and completely broken with nowhere else to turn, I wandered into a non-denominational church for Easter service and that day completely and unequivocally changed the direction of my life. Sometimes we don't know the plan and purpose for our lives until we walk through the fire and come out the other side.
 
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Fellas this coming Sunday 2 weeks ago my life fell to pieces. My wife left me after a touch over 4 years. We have been up and down over the time of our marriage and it's been on both of our accounts. She is from about 1:15mins away from where we live here on my family farm where I work. Beef and dairy.

She has struggled adjusting and always wanted to go and do and such but never understand I couldn't just do that. My father has added a lot of stress on me for most of my life. Worked me like a dog never appreciated anything I've ever done and she tried to get me to stand up to him to get him to help me a little so I could get away. I finally stuck my ground to him Tuesday after she left but it's seemingly to late.

I'm struggling with with this and not quiet sure how to deal with it or where to start for recovery. Most of you know me as a cut up but this has sucked the life out of me. I am
Going to meet with preacher man tonight and his wife and talk with them. I'm in a hole right now that is making me see why people
Commit suicide.

I cannot explain what it took to unleash 20-25 years of lent up hurt and anger to my daddy before getting started working that morning and then trying to deal With her gone. I held it all In for 9 days never talked to a soul and finally I've had to Let it out. My mother is a drunk has been all my life. I do not wanna go down that road I know better. I need some advice.

I don't typically air out any mess like this but I'm smart enough to know I'm in a situation right now that I've never been in and it's bigger than what I can deal with alone
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Therefore, since we are justified by faith, we[a] have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ. 2 Through him we have obtained access[b] to this grace in which we stand, and we[c] rejoice in our hope of sharing the glory of God. 3 More than that, we[d] rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, 4 and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, 5 and hope does not disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit which has been given to us.
My favorite scripture for rough times.
What’s you real name? Seems kinda strange for me to ask God to give blinginpse the strength to carry on.
 
This to will past, I know this is a very low point in your life but things will get better if you let it, keep a cool head. Praying for you and your family.
 
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Fellas this coming Sunday 2 weeks ago my life fell to pieces. My wife left me after a touch over 4 years. We have been up and down over the time of our marriage and it's been on both of our accounts. She is from about 1:15mins away from where we live here on my family farm where I work. Beef and dairy.

She has struggled adjusting and always wanted to go and do and such but never understand I couldn't just do that. My father has added a lot of stress on me for most of my life. Worked me like a dog never appreciated anything I've ever done and she tried to get me to stand up to him to get him to help me a little so I could get away. I finally stuck my ground to him Tuesday after she left but it's seemingly to late.

I'm struggling with with this and not quiet sure how to deal with it or where to start for recovery. Most of you know me as a cut up but this has sucked the life out of me. I am
Going to meet with preacher man tonight and his wife and talk with them. I'm in a hole right now that is making me see why people
Commit suicide.

I cannot explain what it took to unleash 20-25 years of lent up hurt and anger to my daddy before getting started working that morning and then trying to deal With her gone. I held it all In for 9 days never talked to a soul and finally I've had to Let it out. My mother is a drunk has been all my life. I do not wanna go down that road I know better. I need some advice.

I don't typically air out any mess like this but I'm smart enough to know I'm in a situation right now that I've never been in and it's bigger than what I can deal with alone
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Your in my prayers.. loss my first wife to cancer. It lead me down the wrong road for a while. It was tough loss my will to do any thing but drink. But the right people told me about jesus. And all of his goodness .. talk to the preacher and his wife and talk to god like he next to u in prayer... thats what turned my life around ... keep ur head up one day at atime ......
 
No matter how low you get no matter how bad you feel keep your eyes on the cross and just remember that God loves you. My father committed suicide and it didn't fix anything. There have been some very wise words spoken here wiser than I could even speak so I won't try to build on them. Just in case you want to speak to someone other than the members who have already giving you their phone number, here's mine. 225 939 6543. My marriage went through a pretty rough spot and it had a lot to do with my mom. We're in a really good place right now, the wife and I that is. I unfortunately no longer speak to my mother. If I may suggest a good book. The name of the book is boundaries. It may help with you and your father, I don't know, but it sure helped me in life in general. Will definitely be praying for you and your family.

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Blingin

No one knows you more intimately than you and your creator. ( If you subscribe to such ). I personally Do and believe that there is wisdom available to you during this difficult time. There are enormous challenges in this lifetime and then the promise of a " greater later" . I personally promise to say a prayer for you. MANY men and women have done the same for me and I am obligated to do the same. Reach out to everyone that will listen.
Also, on a brighter note , at least you have @Jefferson10940 ,@pilgrimhunter , @MCDM and @g2outdoors on your team for the hunting contest. :rolleyes::rolleyes:
 
My door is always open brother. Lifes roads are not always easy but i always think through those dark times eventually the sun has to come up and shine.

Seriously if you ever want to talk man i know we haven’t met but pm me and ill give you my number.
 
Yes prayers sent here. Praying you two can make amends and get back together. Relationships can be a ton of work but so worth the effort.
Look to God and commit your way to Him and he will see you through! Blessings!

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Sending thoughts and prayers. You are NOT alone. I read ur post from the chemo chair today and this forum is an incredible bunch of people who truly help each other. One thing I’m always asking my patients to remember about suicide is that it’s a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

Don’t know where u r with a higher power but one of my closest friends always tells me “if god brings you to it, he will bring you through it!”

Hang in there. In time you will look back and know you are on the other side.

Bless you for having the cajones to reach out. That’s 90% of the solution to any problem.


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Lots of great advise here and from a bunch of guys that don't really know you, that speaks volumes. We all want to see you pull through this tough time, you'll be a changed man in one way or another in time. The choice is yours to make whether it's a constructive or destructive one but I know I'm going to be praying for the constructive route for you.
I know it's been said by many here already but if you need an ear I'm a pretty good listener and come from a long line of people who know how to hold relationships together through thick and thin, 989-859-8460.
You've done a really brave thing bringing this here, I'm sure it wasn't easy but it shows that you're putting one foot in front of the other. Keep it up brother.
 
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