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My wife is better than yours LOL she has put up with a selfish clown for 22 years now with no end in sight.
Do we have any woman on this forum?
I'm guessing, if there are any, they don't want to make it known...
...They probably don't want a bunch of swollen-neck, diaper dwellers PMing them asking for "saddle photos"
Some people have all the luck LOLI'm laughing my *ss off reading these responses. My wife and I have been happily married for almost 34 years and she grew up eating venison. She used to hunt quite a bit (sitting by herself) and has shot her share of deer but just doesn't have the time for it anymore with work and the grandkids taking up a lot of her time now. I guess you guys weren't quite picky enough when you picked out your bride to be. My wife and I are soulmates and she actually encourages me to hunt more often but a guy can only hunt so much. Eat your hearts out fellas! Oh and she has her money and I have mine so she doesn't question any of the equipment purchases I make as long as the bills are paid.
Same. Bills are paid, 401k and Roth IRA are funded, freezer's full...set the rest on fire if it makes ya happy, babe.Oh and she has her money and I have mine so she doesn't question any of the equipment purchases I make as long as the bills are paid.
LMAO man so you're saying you get to hunt 3 times a week for like 1/3 of the year??? I'm lucky to hunt 2 or 3 times a month outside of the rut. Consider yourself lucky, enjoy the days in the woods, and maybe cut a few out to spoil the bride.Thanks for the input(even if yall ain't woman). I do have a good marriage(in my opinion) and am very thankful. I average 55 hours a week at work monday -friday normally 6am until 6pm except Friday I normally get of at 2pm. During hunting season( Oct 15 - Feb 10) I try to hunt 2 evenings during the week so I have to work 6am to 7pm three days out of the week. I try to predict the weather for the week and pic the best 2 evenings to hunt. I also get to hunt Saturdays normally either a morning or an evening but during the Jan rut I try to squeeze in an all day somewhere. I have 4 kids still at home age 4-17 and my wife is a stay at home mom. I do take the kids with me from time to time if I'm going to set over a grass patch in a shooting house but I prefer to go alone and get up a tree somewhere. I don't hunt Sundays. And I take all my (5 weeks) vacation with the family and not hunting. Am I over doing it on the hunting/family time? I don't want to be a selfish spoiled husband.
Man this is such good advice. I’ve only been married 6.5 years so I’m always looking to learn. The addition of our first child this fall has made time even more tight.Ok not a woman’s perspective but I’ve been happily married for 21 years & have had similar experiences. I can tell you what works for us & what throws things out of whack.... I’ll try to address each
1. I’ve taken my wife Turkey hunting once & she’s never gone back , too many ticks & she can’t talk.... I’ve tried numerous times since & there’s no interest. So what I did instead was worked along side her in the kitchen to make whatever new or established wild game meals something we enjoy. She gets great pleasure out of a field to fork meal that’s a big family hit & takes pride in it. But I have to make sure that the meat prep/ processing is smooth & nothing required from her.
2. stress relief- usually when I get tunnel vision & don’t communicate my plans well, things go sideways. Before the season I roughly discuss how I’d like all this to play out (a few days early to late September, a trip mid to late October & a few days late pre rut, bow hunt hard for 3-5 days early November, gun hunt mid November a few days, sporadic late season based on weather) finding balance during this is important. Cancel a morning hunt & go out to breakfast with just her or the family. Pull extra weight on household chores, so she’s not doing extra thinking that you should be. From September to January there’s not a bag of trash, sink full of dishes, load of laundry or small home repair that’s left on her plate...... communication is key!! I plan my whole year so when it’s time to hunt I’ve made enough deposits in the family account so to speak that it’s not a big deal, come season.
3. Off your back- well some was addressed above, but the best thing that ever happened was encouraging my wife to find a hobby too. She now loves to sew & mess with crafting stuff. We discuss her sewing/crafting purchases & build that stuff into the budget. When she gets a box from wherever now she jokes that it’s just rope from Eastern Woods Outdoors........ support her hobby & hopefully it’s reciprocated! The rest is about balance.
4. No specific advice except for be a great husband, dad all year long & cash in hard during hunting season. Makes sure you have some non hunting things on the calendar during season to connect so she’s not a hunting widow.
Good luck man!!
Yall are a gas, lol.
Its about balance. Its about investing. Its about considering someone else before you once in a while.
I like the way you think. I take the wife fishing for 6 months and then I get to hunt for 6 months. Perfect balance!!!Yall are a gas, lol.
Its about balance. Its about investing. Its about considering someone else before you once in a while.