Success!! So I followed
@Westdesign03 lead and did some cutting and shaping. They now feel like I had hoped they would when I ordered them.
So I cant post pics from my phone because the files are too large???
Here is what I did which is basically the same as above.
On the female end there is a lip and you can see that roughly 1/16 sticks out. I took an exacto knife and cut that 1/16 lip off.
On the male end I took them off the rail so I could get to it better and used a small pair of dykes and just went around it cutting the lip off of it then smoothed out the edges. Remember, the top of the male end, isn't the part that really seats the other section, it is the bottom that you trim.
It goes on and comes apart great now.
I also wrote to Hawk Support this morning. I will let you guys know their response.