Alright gents (and ladies, there seems to be only a few on here, but those that are seem like better hunters than me!) It's time for some honesty. I'm trying to teach myself to shoot in my late 30s, and I'm pretty sure my main problem is that i flinch. I'm a bit embarrassed to admit it to be honest, feel like this forum is a bit of a friendly/safe space, so I'm willing to admit it here and think I could benefit from your opinions/perhaps there's another newbie out there that will find this thread one day. Perhaps (hopefully) I'll return to it in the future for some retrospective laughs. I'm not sure exactly where it comes from, Ive never scoped myself or anything, but I think I'm just not used to the bang a gun makes to be honest (go ahead and chuckle, it is what it is), and jumped up to bigger calibers too soon (pretty sure this is true on the handgun side for sure). I can shoot my 22 rifle ok, not great, but good enough to keep practicing and no flinching perceived just need to slow down and develop a consistent pattern/squeeze I think. When it comes to center-fire however, my limited experience thus far with my 350 legend and handguns (mostly my brother's 10mm Glock 20) tells me that I definitely have a flinch and it's pretty embarrassing. I also am figuring out why I give a crap about being embarrassed, so that's half the reason I'm deciding to post about it. First shot is on target, after that I anticipate the bang and can't shoot for crap. How do I get over this?
I've decided to put a lot of practice in with my 22 to get the routine/feeling down, but early on, it's not translating to comfort (for lack of a better word) with my 350. I realize that likely more practice will be the best solution (I remember my early days starting to bowhunt and not liking hearing "boots on the ground, get out and walk around" as the solution to many deer finding woes, and now 3 years later find myself saying that same thing to the greener newbies), but also hoping some of you seasoned/grew up with guns people might have some tips.
Planning to focus on my breathing, and using a rest, trying to get comfortable with a good cheek weld etc, basically just drilling the basics that I've gleaned from watching waaaaay too many YouTube videos. (But if you've got good resources to watch or read please send them my way). Have also seen that dry firing with a center-fire gun is a good "rehearsal" to get over the nerves. Wondering if (assuming the range is empty or I would still be able to hear/communicate with other groups) doing something like using earbuds to play some louder music inside my hearing protection while firing so the bang isn't so jarring could also help me get over the newbie nerves?
As with most things, I expect to be good at things right away, so that's definitely part of it, but need to confront the reality that proficiency takes practice, so definitely not looking for an easy button, but would really appreciate some advice ( and, to be honest, some ribbing/accountability to "get over myself" and relax, which I think would also help me). I'm a pretty tightly wound spring usually, feel strange admitting that to the "world", but here we go, it's a year of getting happier with me all around and this is a big part of progressing my hunting journey forward. I feel like that expectations vs reality issue shows up to an extent here for sure. I fully acknowledge that jumping from nothing to a 10mm was stupid- it was more necessity than anything, being in bear country requires some rudimentary defensive handgun knowledge, but I've come to realize that I need to be much more practiced and proficient, so I plan to purchase a 22 and a 9 mm handgun to practice in that arena as well.
Am I overthinking things? Will this come with time? I just don't want to develop bad habits, and shooting like crap is expensive and annoying, though money saving isn't the issue. I really want to be able to rifle hunt for deer next season here in Maryland, and my brother and I are planning a blacktail/brown bear hunt in Alaska in September, he will be the primary shooter but I need to be at least decent at shooting under pressure to be his backup from a safety perspective.
Flame suit on and zipped up halfway, but hoping you seasoned shooters will see the honest need here and might have some suggestions to help me get over my flinch. Thanks!
I've decided to put a lot of practice in with my 22 to get the routine/feeling down, but early on, it's not translating to comfort (for lack of a better word) with my 350. I realize that likely more practice will be the best solution (I remember my early days starting to bowhunt and not liking hearing "boots on the ground, get out and walk around" as the solution to many deer finding woes, and now 3 years later find myself saying that same thing to the greener newbies), but also hoping some of you seasoned/grew up with guns people might have some tips.
Planning to focus on my breathing, and using a rest, trying to get comfortable with a good cheek weld etc, basically just drilling the basics that I've gleaned from watching waaaaay too many YouTube videos. (But if you've got good resources to watch or read please send them my way). Have also seen that dry firing with a center-fire gun is a good "rehearsal" to get over the nerves. Wondering if (assuming the range is empty or I would still be able to hear/communicate with other groups) doing something like using earbuds to play some louder music inside my hearing protection while firing so the bang isn't so jarring could also help me get over the newbie nerves?
As with most things, I expect to be good at things right away, so that's definitely part of it, but need to confront the reality that proficiency takes practice, so definitely not looking for an easy button, but would really appreciate some advice ( and, to be honest, some ribbing/accountability to "get over myself" and relax, which I think would also help me). I'm a pretty tightly wound spring usually, feel strange admitting that to the "world", but here we go, it's a year of getting happier with me all around and this is a big part of progressing my hunting journey forward. I feel like that expectations vs reality issue shows up to an extent here for sure. I fully acknowledge that jumping from nothing to a 10mm was stupid- it was more necessity than anything, being in bear country requires some rudimentary defensive handgun knowledge, but I've come to realize that I need to be much more practiced and proficient, so I plan to purchase a 22 and a 9 mm handgun to practice in that arena as well.
Am I overthinking things? Will this come with time? I just don't want to develop bad habits, and shooting like crap is expensive and annoying, though money saving isn't the issue. I really want to be able to rifle hunt for deer next season here in Maryland, and my brother and I are planning a blacktail/brown bear hunt in Alaska in September, he will be the primary shooter but I need to be at least decent at shooting under pressure to be his backup from a safety perspective.
Flame suit on and zipped up halfway, but hoping you seasoned shooters will see the honest need here and might have some suggestions to help me get over my flinch. Thanks!
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