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Why I'm extra ornery lately = Divorce

The time has come, waiting for my virtual hearing to start. Fingers crossed this stage goes smoothly and the judge signs off on what we have agreed to and just makes things official, it's been a long 10 months. Will report back after, and wanted to say again that I have appreciated all your support more than I know how to put into words here.

Edit 10:30: quick and painless. Divorce granted, no discussion, just confirming we wanted everything agreed to made official. I still have some legal/paperwork hoops to jump through for the house and other combined assets, but I am now officially divorced, even if some of my stuff isn't yet. Thanks again all.
I’m sorry about the divorce but also happy that you’ve found strength and comfort in the process. Prayers for healing and also for the strength for you to be able to start life afresh and make “lemonade” out of the lemons my friend!!! Now go drop a nice buck to celebrate
 
Good luck on starting the new chapter of your life. It won't be easy. My favorite poem for inner strength:

See It Through​

BY EDGAR ALBERT GUEST
When you’re up against a trouble,
Meet it squarely, face to face;
Lift your chin and set your shoulders,
Plant your feet and take a brace.
When it’s vain to try to dodge it,
Do the best that you can do;
You may fail, but you may conquer,
See it through!

Black may be the clouds about you
And your future may seem grim,
But don’t let your nerve desert you;
Keep yourself in fighting trim.
If the worst is bound to happen,
Spite of all that you can do,
Running from it will not save you,
See it through!

Even hope may seem but futile,
When with troubles you’re beset,
But remember you are facing
Just what other men have met.
You may fail, but fall still fighting;
Don’t give up, whate’er you do;
Eyes front, head high to the finish.
See it through!
 
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